Love
is the birthright of every baby born and every child
and every human on the planet. Your right to happiness
is even in the Declaration of Independence. We cry in
movies for the loneliness and loveless lives of others,
yet exlude ourselves. What about you, don't you deserve
love?.
The
problem in finding your future love is that you have
to act, not just wait. Men and women from western cultures
often talk about "being" in love, or "love
found me". We have a rather passive view of finding
love, like an accident that happens by divine intervention,
but certainly nothing that we actually "work"
on. We "find" ourselves "falling"
in love in high school, college, work, church, bars
and through introductions by friends and relatives.
Yet the pool of women we meet is very small and we accept
that unthinkingly. What if you actually had control
over how many women you met? What if you could meet
so many good, beautiful women, that your problem is
NOT scarcity, but abundance of choice?
What
Inna and here staff have learned from the hundreds of
men and women we have brought together is that LOVE
is an ACTIVE process. It is not a condition separate
from you and out of your control. It is a constantly
created, renewed and nurtured, and reinvented by you
and by her. Do you deserve to be in love? Yes. But you
have to act.
What
about your family? Do they think that you deserve
to be in love? Do your friends? Were they shocked when
you started talking about finding a Russian woman to
be your wife? Were they supportive? No? We're not surprised.
Here
is another thing Inna and I have learned about men seeking
foreign wives. Often families are NOT SUPPORTIVE at
first. WE thought it was the cultural aspect, Russian
vrs American, but no, we have come to understand that
families and friends really don't like changes in you.
They want you to stay the same. They don't want you
to be unhappy, or sick, but they mostly want you to
be exactly the same as you are now, forever. Do you
want to be the same as you are now, forever? We can
tell you that in time your friends and family will come
to accept and love a Russian member of the family just
as they would any woman, any child, because in a very
short while, this NEW person in the family is just one
of the family. Your wife stops being "Russian"
and starts being herself.
I
have to tell you that we know a lot or Russians, and
they are all just people, running the whole gamut of
personalities and characters. We personally can't stand
some of them, and love others. I don't think of them
as Russians or anything else but as themselves because
I know them personally. That is what will happen with
your new wife too. Your family and friends and grown
children will grow to accept and love her, or not, just
like they would have to if you married the express lane
checker at Walmart who lives down the street. The important
thing is the find a person who everyone will be proud
of once they know her. That's exactly who we have waiting
for you in Sochi. Women you will be proud of, women
who will cherish you, and women who have a cultural
belief that love is worked on every day. Do you deserve
love?
If your answer is yes, YES you
want to discover that special someone who will love
you, then you have to act. A
Russian Romance can bring good men,
like you and good women, like our ladies in Sochi, together,
but the first step, which is occuring right now as you
read this is the most important one. You must put yourself
in motion, try this different thing, take a chance,
a small risk. But compare that to the risk of doing
nothing. Your real risk having NOTHING AT ALL change.
Take a look at the pictures on the right of Craig and
Yulia. Craig was in Seattle on business and drove down
to our house to meet us. Don't you deserve at least
a chance? Who told you that you must be lonely? How
long are you willing to wait to start your life?
Craig
will tell you that he hoped but didn't really think
he would be successful, honestly, he just didn't know,
but he was willing to trust Inna, and Inna in Sochi
and our fantastic staff. He took a chance. Take a look
at that last picture.
Inna
and I know that love is scary. WE KNOW that love can
be painful sometimes. Any yet, what is life without
it. Why take up space, why breathe? The only way you
can fail to find your love, your future, your wife,
is to do NOTHING. What do your friends often say when
kidding you - "Get a LIFE!" Well that's exactly
what we want you to do, and we are NOT kidding.
Do
you deserve love? Yes.